The long voyage
1) And they visited
the wise man of their kingdom, who knows everything about curses, but he could
not help them. They met the greatest healer who said he can delay the spell but
can not free their children from it. But they did not loose hope. The Princess
and the Prince were invited to a far-away Kingdom. “While we are there” they
thought “we might even accomplish our mission.” And that’s what they tried to
do. In their search they travelled from one city to another, they have met
wizards, witches and hermits.
2) A year passed when
they arrived to a tent of a fortune-teller. She looked at the Prince’s hand,
she examined it so closely her nose almost touched it. There was a long, very
long silent interval. “I see” she cried in trance “I see that you are under a
terrible spell. And so are your yet unborn children. But I see ways to avoid
it. Listen now carefully, and I shall tell you about them all. You might not
like one or another. What is right for someone might be the worst for somebody
else. You must find your very own way.”
3) The genetic team at City
Hospital provided an in
depth explanation of the genetic side of our condition. When we asked about
family planning, we were informed of the following options.
Remain childless / Adopt a child / Conceive naturally and test children at the age of 12 / Conceive naturally and test
for FAP during the pregnancy and optionally terminate it / IVF-PGD treatment /
Sperm or egg donation
We feel so glad that we had the opportunity to make our own
decision. Every couple is different so is their preference. Rianon and I have
chosen the IVF-PGD treatment, Valerie and her husband to conceive naturally. My mother
said that they would have probably remained childless if they knew about my
father’s condition. It is a difficult personal decision of the couple and
nobody should judge that.
We were told that the exact mutation of APC gene (Adenomatous Polyposis Coli gene, the gene responsible for Puil's genetic mutation) must be
located before we can be referred to a London
clinic for the IVF-PGD treatment. We had to wait 6 months for the result and we
felt we were running out of time. My sister Valerie just announced her pregnancy and
while I was happy for her I have to admit I was jealous. We were ready for
having children for years and we were nowhere near.
4) “Look, there is the
cottage the fortune-teller sent us to.”
“Come in, come in”
said an old rusty voice from the cottage. “Would you like a cup of tea?”
“Oh no, it is very
kind of you, we would like just...”
“I know very well what
you want. And I know exactly what to do”
“Then tell us please
we have no time to loose”
“No, no, no. You must not
hurry. Just sit down, have a nice cup of tea and listen to me”
And she said exactly
the same, what the fortune-teller already explained.
“It would take long,
it would be expensive, it would not be easy at all, and at the end you might
even fail. Are you sure you would like to do that?”
“Oh yes, we...”
“Do not answer yet.
Have a good rest, and tell me tomorrow morning.”
So even if we agreed on our way to London before the appointment, that we won’t
waste any more time, we had to make the journey again in a month time to say
yes we are sure, this is what we want to do.
5) So a quick recap of IVF-PGD. Multiple eggs are produced,
fertilized. The grown embryos are tested for genetic mutation.
The genetic testing is the key factor of the treatment, it
must be 100% accurate. Therefore a lot of preparation is needed. The geneticist
has to be able to carry out the test in a short time and also make sure that
the genetic material they are examining comes from the mother and the father
and be able to decide whether the embryo carries the mutation or not. The
length of the preparation phase can not be predicted as it is not an automated
process, it involves creative research depending on the individual couple's
genetic make up.
6) “Very good, very
good my dear” said the old lady next morning “I see that you are ready for this
long and difficult journey. You must go and find the Goblin forest. You need to
cross those dangerous mountains. The only way is through a tunnel.”
They found the tunnel
easily. Inside it was cold and dark. They were walking for 3 days and 3 nights.
But they did not reach the other end yet.
“We should be already
out”
“We must have taken
the wrong way”
“I feel lost; it is so
dark I am not even sure whether we are closer at all now than when we entered
into the tunnel.”
“Something is
definitely wrong, we must go back and ask the old lady for more precise
directions”
“Hello, my dear little
Prince and Princess” said the old lady “Why are you so upset? Sit down please.
Do you want a cup of tea?”
And they explained how
lost they felt in the tunnel.
“But I told you, that
the tunnel will be blocked while the goblins are preparing for you. You must be
patient. It should not take too long now.
They went back into
the dark and one day they spotted some light. They climbed out and they exclaimed
“Oh but it must be the goblin’s forest!”
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